Confidence

Being nineteen and basically a girl the thing that I have struggled through many years is being confident. Confidence is a really complicated subject. There are many variables you have to take into consideration…

I have met many types of girls chubby, thin, tall, short, long haired, short haired generally different than me. To my eyes they were ALL gorgeous inside and out. So the first thing that pops up on my mind when I come across such a beautiful person is what the hell went so wrong with me. So I took a step back and cleared my head. And that is when I realized that it isn’t about how tall or how curvy you are. It is about how you carry yourself and what you think about you. Because if you choose to see things differently and start to love the things that make you YOU then other people will start to love them. Trust me on this. If you come off as a person that hasn’t the ability to do anything, if you are conviced that you are useless then people will have that opinion about you. Being able to say that I love my body or my hair or who I am is the HARDEST thing that we all have to achieve. It does seem IMPOSSIBLE at times. It took me years to be able to say that I will fight for things because I deserve them. I used to think that I wasn’t good enough to be happy so I stopped trying to. And you know what happened?? Everything in my life went wrong. I felt so unworthy, I cried all day and didn’t do anything fun. But now I have realized that all those horrible things that happened to me and all the other GOOD things that I’ve missed out because I was scared were MY choice. And then I started to do things. I started to take care of myself more, I started talking to people. I started TRYING to do better. And oddly enough I did. I am better now. And although I am not the girl I dream to be I am closer to being her. So take this advice from me: if you don’t like something about your life do something to change it 
 
Here’s a picture of really pretty lights because why not?
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36 comments

  1. thelifeofannalise · April 7, 2016

    i love this!!

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  2. missemilyrosexo · April 14, 2016

    Thankyou so much for this post! I am a girl who has confidence issues, so reading this has helped me a lot and I will change how I think of myself and start doing things. Wish me luck!

    https://emilyrosedotcom.WordPress.com – I’m new to this, so if you could check out my blog and give me a follow, that would mean so much to me! ❤

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    • nayardt · April 27, 2016

      Sorry for missing your comment! Thanks a lot for your words of kindness! Glad I could help a tad! I’ll definitely check you out 🙂

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  3. Becca Olsen · April 15, 2016

    I love it! Looks amazing!
    http://www.justabitofbecca.com

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  4. THEBLINGBABE · April 15, 2016

    Such a wonderful post! xoxo

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  5. lotsofcharlotte · April 17, 2016

    Nice post! All that you’ve written is right, but it is difficult to act like a confident person (as you probably know yourself), but I’m trying. And maybe I’ll write a post about it when I get there too 🙂

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    • nayardt · April 27, 2016

      Probably the hardest thing ever! You just have to keep on trying!

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  6. Soph · April 22, 2016

    Confidence is all about acting in the beginning- I used to pretend I was confident when doing a speech, being at a party ect. And one day it just kind of was like my mind believed how my body was acting (smiling, good posture, making eye contact) and I became confident! Sometimes you have to fake it till you make it 🙂
    https://advicefromblog.wordpress.com

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  7. Rachelle · April 22, 2016

    Motivational stuff. Thanks!

    Liked by 1 person

  8. thejouskablog · April 26, 2016

    I’ve always been diffident, but now I’ve realized that being confident will only take you to places. 🙂

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  9. fromfashionwithlovesite · April 26, 2016

    Found this really inspiring ! xx

    Liked by 1 person

    • nayardt · April 26, 2016

      Glad you liked it! They’ll definitely be more!

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  10. emilykatesmith12 · April 26, 2016

    I really love this post, I sometimes have low confidence and low self esteem, as does anyone of course! Thank you so much for writing this post, it has really given me a new perspective and shown me not to look into things and just be happy with who you are. Thank you! x

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    • nayardt · April 27, 2016

      This is exactly what I wanted to do. Glad I could accomplish it! Thanks so much for your kind words 🙂

      Liked by 1 person

  11. sociallyawkward1blog · August 1

    I really like this, lovely x

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  12. welcometomyTerriFiclife · August 31

    Really nice and beautiful post!! Take care and continue writing!! Good job!!

    Liked by 1 person

  13. classyqueeny · September 3

    I loved this post, great work. ❤

    Liked by 1 person

  14. theartofbeingunforgettable · September 20

    I adore this post with my whole heart! You are truly 19?

    Liked by 2 people

  15. Nhawa · November 19

    Lovely!!
    🙂
    I hope this will help as many people as possible 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  16. Bite-Size Dhamma · December 31

    You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.

    Liked by 1 person

  17. shannenwilliamson · January 10

    I love this! Your Confidence post is such a confidence booster 🙂

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  18. papergirl08 · January 22

    This is so inspirational 😍 Thank you so much for this xx

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  19. ThatHiemiGirl · February 12

    I love this! I am also nineteen and am a sophomore in college. It’s hard to keep up with a lot of things, confidence being one of them! 🙂

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  20. gulliena · May 8

    Many many people feel this way about themselves. Its really good that you’ve written about this. I hope people are able to look themselves in different light now after reading this.
    Also This is my first comment on this site, just started following! 😊 Good Day!

    Like

  21. Swati Awana · 22 Days Ago

    Really nice…short n sweet! Lovely!
    Following you for it! 💟

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